Thursday, December 20, 2007

How Do You Know If Your Significant Other Is Gay?

How would you know if your spouse/significant other was gay?
Resolved QuestionHow would you know if your spouse/significant other was gay? I'm seeing more and more stuff on tv about how a marriage/relationship ended after they came out of the closet. Why would someone get involved with a heterosexual if they liked the same sex? If they aren't "obviously" homosexual, how would someone know if they were involved with one?Just one of those weird nagging questions. Any thoughts?
Best Answer Lot's of people think they're just curious, or are scared and think it'll go away if they're with someone of the opposite sex. I think it's hard for you to know, you'd just have to see how they are with the same sex. See if they're a little flirty.Them being gay/lesbian doesn't mean they don't love you. They're with you because they love you, and if they're gay, they think their love for you is strong enough to "Cure" them. But there is no real tell tale sign.

By: Dorothy

Gay Prostitute Who Outed Ted Haggard Alleges Date With Idaho Sen. Larry Craig

The man who outed Colorado evangelist Rev. Ted Haggard for soliciting him for gay sex is among the latest crop of homosexuals who are claiming to have had suggestive confrontations or outright sex with Idaho Sen. Larry Craig.
Mike Jones, a former prostitute who ended Haggard's career, told The Idaho Statesman that Craig paid him for sex in late 2004 or early 2005. Jones, 50, said the encounter lasted less than an hour and cost Craig $200.
Jones told the paper he recognized Craig, 62, only after the national news picked up a story in August of Craig's guilty plea for a disorderly conduct charge relating to an incident in a men's restroom at the Minneapolis airport in June.
"Once I saw Larry Craig do his news conference, that's when I go, 'My God! That guy came to see me,'" Jones is quoted saying in Sunday editions of The Statesman.
Click here to read The Idaho Statesman article. (Warning: Graphic Content)
The graphic details of the alleged encounter are relayed in the newspaper, which for decades has made Craig's sexual orientation one of its chief investigative projects. The newspaper said it discovered that the date of the supposed meeting between Craig and Jones coincides with several visits Craig made to Colorado in the time between November 2004 and March 2005.
According to the newspaper, Craig spokesman Dan Whiting responded to the allegation by telling Idaho television station KIVI: "Mike Jones is lying in order to sell his book — plain and simple. Larry has never met Mike Jones."
Jones, who has written a book about his experience with Haggard, who was forced out as pastor of New Life Church after the gay affair was exposed, admitted the Craig relationship could help book sales, but told the newspaper he is motivated by the desire to expose hypocrisy by men like Haggard and Craig, who has a consistently anti-gay voting record in Congress.
Jones' account is one of five stories recounted by gay men who say they've had encounters with the Republican senator. Two of the five detail sexual liaisons. The other three stories relay alleged propositions made by Craig.
Craig has denied repeatedly that he is gay but his explanation for what he calls a misunderstanding in the airport restroom stemming from his "wide stance" in bathroom stalls has become a sarcasm-laced excuse for people who deny obvious wrongdoing.
In a television interview in October, Craig's claim that he is not gay shifted much of the public's opinion in his favor, but he is still retiring from office at the end of the 110th Congress. He had originally said he would resign in September but changed his mind after initiating legal proceedings to have his guilty plea scrubbed.

Saturday, December 01, 2007

Even Desperate Housewives Gets Into the Act

This last Sunday, Richard Chamberlain guest starred on the popular Sunday night TV show about the housewives living on a certain street in suburban America. He played the long lost step father of Lynette who had divorced her biological mother years ago. He shared with Lynette that the real reason he left her mother was because he was 'gay'. After a marriage of two years, the mom (played by Polly Bergen) felt ashamed to tell he children the real reason for the divorce because 'she thought she had turned him gay.' Something was mentioned about 'not being woman enough'.
I wonder how many other women/men that find themselves married to a gay mate feel the same way. That feeling should only last for about 10 minutes or so because no one can make their 'mate' gay. That is something that they brought into the marriage themselves and either refused to deal with it beforehand or actually thought that getting married would make it go away.
Either way, the spouse of a gay mate should not blame themselves if they find themselves in that situation. It is not about them, but about their mate.