Trusting Again after a Gay Spouse

One of the biggest problems I had to overcome after finding out my gay spouse was actually living another whole life besides the one he shared with me, was trusting another person. About anything! Dating and thinking that someone would be telling the truth to me was almost laughable. It took years to learn to trust again. I think that with anyone that has been in a relationship or married to someone that has a totally different life they don't know about, ie. another family, an addiction to something that takes them away from you, etc. will most likely also have a problem trusting others. The good news is that you can learn to trust again. It may not come as easily or quickly with everyone, but it can happen.
My middle child has also expressed a concern to me that he has a problem with trust issues. What we do as parents and the examples we set are very important as it can affect generations to come!